Showing posts with label misogyny. Show all posts
Showing posts with label misogyny. Show all posts

Wednesday, 24 February 2010

Thursday, 10 December 2009

Women Don’t Want to Get Married and Have Children Because It’s A Lot of Work: Who is Surprised? « Unasked Advice

Women Don’t Want to Get Married and Have Children Because It’s A Lot of Work: Who is Surprised? « Unasked Advice


Levity- but not really. This writer didn't know who Glenn something was ? ! Oh my- he (Glenn) says he speaks for one of the greatest social and health disasters plaguing America today: namely- the misogynist male. (the virus exists in other places too- but not as web present.This blog writer ain't seen nuthin yet !)

The writer reminds me of me- when I seemingly insulted a male colleague-and sent a female colleague into gales of laughter (vive la difference !) -the poor fellow had asked me -(by way of a compliment I suppose- thank you ! )- why I looked and seemed so young for my age. To which I honestly replied (one of my weaknesses-honesty) - "I stopped being married-and didn't marry for long-"

Well- I know there is genetics and real food etc. involved- but- really- I have never been so miserable and put down ,as when I was married. I became a whipping girl- especially for no.2 (I know- but -I was still naive-it's my parents'; fault- they were very decent people)-and then lost EVERYTHING to the 2 - the abuser. I'm talking criminal, life threatening behavior- to all the children,animals and -woman- in range.

Even single life- running and hiding and paying for children- while knowing they were -severely wounded- etc.- still- better- hiding OUTSIDE the prison- than being chained inside-with no hope of even life itself. No 1 supported- still does I suppose- this criminal. Now- what would one call that ? Misogyny ? or just- atrocious hateful behaviour ? I digress. But- read some of Glennie's stuff- and it is just like listening to an X -or 2.

I wouldn't call it marriage - -many times- there are other words more apt-

That's why some women have their children- but with NO relationship. Something I really thought about- but- I was born too soon-

Well - broke harvard person who wrote this piece- thank you !

Friday, 17 April 2009

Song For My Lost Children

There was a time when men were kind,
And their voices were soft,
And their words inviting.
There was a time when love was blind,
And the world was a song,
And the song was exciting.
There was a time when it all went wrong . . . . .


I dreamed a dream in time gone by,
When hope was high and life worth living.
I dreamed that love would never die,
I dreamed that life would be forgiving.
Then I was younger and less afraid,
And dreams were made and used and wasted.
There was no ransom to be paid,
No song unsung, no wine untasted.
But the tigers come at night,
With their voices soft as thunder,
As they tear your hope apart,
And they turn your dream to shame.

They slept a summer by my side,
They filled my days with endless wonder . . . . .
They took their childhood in their stride,
But they were gone when autumn came.

And still I dream they'll come to me,
That we will live the years together,
But there are dreams that cannot be,
And there are storms we may not weather.

I had a dream my life would be
So different from this hell I'm living,
So different now from what it seemed . . . . .
Now life has killed the dream I dreamed . . .



Adapted( ?) from the lyrics of I Dreamed a Dream-Les Miserables