Wednesday, December 30, 2009
This is an excellent site- for any wishing to know more about how our children are being destroyed in the contentious divorce cases. The ones where a known woman beater and child sexual aggressor -sues for custody-and gets it. The scenarios described in the book Mothers on Trial- have not abated over the years, they have worsened.
Teachers deal more and more with tormented children and teemagers in the classroom. Society deals with more and more reported violence from young people . Isn't it time the media started to be more responsible ,and investigate and report on this oft hidden social scourge ? I see that S.Montgomery of the Montreal Gazette, has received an award for her print reporting on the sexual abuse of students in school(s) run by the Holy Cross brothers. Bravo and kudos to The Gazette.
Is a psychologist who recommends custody be given to a sexual predator any less guilty ? Is a social worker who recommends custody to a wife beater,bestilaity practicing child sexual agressor, any less guilty ? This -despite police, hospital ,psychiatrist and doctor reports.(and neighbours and priests and day care workers)Is a social worker who receives evidence -ejaculate in a child's underwear-and says-nothing can be done, any less guilty ? Is a Crown Prosecutor who summarily dismisses charges brought by the police, as- just a divorce disagreement- any less guilty ? This kind of scene continues in towns and cities across Canada.
For that matter- what about some bloggers, some roof climbers,some dressup guys and some "journalists" who seem to have decided that all police, doctors and mothers who report (as they must) abuses- are lying ??????????? I find that kind of wilful blindness -incomprehensible. Unless, of course, there are some vested interests. Why would any halfway decent human being, SUPPORT child rapists and woman beaters ? It defies any logic or shred of evolved humanity.
An acquaintance recently brought to my attention-a report on a scientific research on duck vaginas and how ducks have evolved (the females) so that rape is not possible.(duck rape-usual among ducks-)
I used to want to be a bear- in another life-now, I'm thinking- a duck would be good.
(Mother bears know they must protect their young from ranging males-especially the one who impregnated her. It is the way of the bear. No-one prevents them from protecting their young) Seems male bears view the young as rivals for attention, food,and territory. Sound familiar ????????????????
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Seems to me I saw a brief mention a ways back- about a Jean Paul Lacombe- ILLEGALLY kidnapped . Will he get to play Monopoly too ?
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Important news for Canadians trying to factually report and blog about issues directly affecting the health and welfare of its citizens-.
Major brownie points for the Supreme Court !!!!!!!!!
There have always been, and sadly probably always will be, abusers. This despite the increased efforts of many, to protect children.
This group of people are banging the drum of pas /pa again. What is so insidious in this- is the fact that it all sounds- sort of- reasonable to a general public and those who are not informed. In reality, among the "speakers" , one finds some very dubious backgrounds- the kind of background that would make a protective parent run for their lives, clutching their children in their arms.
What has happened to untold numbers -usually of mothers and children, is that a non abusing parent goes for divorce in order to save herself and her children. I'm talking battered women and/or sexually abused children. The children do not want to "visit" their abuser (reasonable, don't you think ?) and the abuser just gets himself a lawyer who is hooked in with certain psychologists and evaluators (so called experts). Using pas/pa- these- lawyers and psychologists etc. will convince a judge (some take less convincing than others) that the mother is alienating. Mother loses custody- raped children go to live with their abuser.
Not all the presenters are - knowingly or otherwise supporting abusers and the annihilation of women and children- I think the mother whose son died, for example- is NOT bent on destruction. But- the track record (often unknown) of most or all of the others- is a record of destruction.
This is posted here as - a BEWARE. Check the backgrounds and history and track record of these so called "experts". Then run the other way - FAST. Run for your life and that of your child. Abusers know about these guys- -non offending parents NEED to know about them. For their sakes and for the sake of the children. It is utterly offensive and repugnant , to someone who is in the know- to see that this- bunch of ideas is being " pushed" on an unsuspecting public.
At least, there is here a list- of "dangerous to the health and welfare of mothers and children" people.
So- take under advisement and do your research. Especially if you are a working mother (can pay the abuser) and if there are any assets that you might have-. Be prepared to lose- everything. Children AND their material inheritance.
I personally know/knew cases of total destruction of mother and children- in one province of Canada. The psychologist most implicated- is on the list of speakers.So called fathers; rights groups support these - persons also. That alone should speak volumes.
Monday, December 21, 2009
Well now- not often we have a glimpse of the kind of situation that usually flies "under the radar" - -
A dark- post from Chaos Theory. Dark- but if no-one sees/hears or knows there is a serious problem- nothing will be done to change the fate of so many children - -
Friday, December 18, 2009
“Parental Alienation Syndrome” Pusher Richard Warshak Makes $40,000 a Week per Inmate per Week at His “PAS Treatment Center” « RightsForMothers.com
This fellow keeps popping up - now and then- here and there- once in a while -every so often-from time to time- ho hum-a bit like that underground fungus that creeps along under the ground- can cover square kilometres -every now and then there is a visible manifestation maybe when it needs new feeding grounds- so it can reproduce and spread the spores to a new territory-
That's- Warshuk- or - Warshack- or- War - chuk- something like that.oh- it's in the title- WARshak.
Good grief. Guess he smells $ - from this guy.(the father) Hope the child remains in - Italy ?- away from this guy anyway-much safer. Good name- come to think of it- -WARshak- oh yes. War prolongs the war- takes it out on the child- makes money.Sickening. As soon as one sees that name- you KNOW something is - -hinky.
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Well- raping a baby often does kill them. I know of someone who sodomized his own children- the mother thought they were going to die. The perpetrator wouldn't allow the mother to take the infants to hospital (of course) -She didn't- the perp had tried to kill the mother- so she thought she risked death herself if she "disobeyed" and then- the children would have no-one to protect them.This child rapist later got custody of his tiny victims.
No surprise there- all a child rapist/wife beater/ bestiality practicing perp has to do when a mother asks for divorce, is get a pro pedo lawyer and psychologist- and some pro-pedo friends to help- and- bingo- the criminals get custody ! Social services will help a lot, too. They have no knowledge of these -actions-it would seem. They just run with- "the mother is crazy- and/or being mean- " - whatever the perp tells them. Then they push for family reunification. Insane.
Strange to see the name of my ancestors' town - Fermanagh-
I am sure babies died like this in the past- and no-one realized why - - -
Guess one could call that - progress ?????????
An excellent report on the findings and progress of the Lee inquest. One person commenting on the article seems to think- "they" are out to get - men. What ??? Huh ?????Does that mean the person thinks murder is okay ?
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Read up Canada- it is the same story here. Essentially- still- if a non-abusing mother reports abuse (as the law in fact, requires) she will probably lose custody, or at the least- be required by law to have the small victims visit their abuser. Institutionalized insanity.
This is an excellent group. The blog owner has known of them- for many years.
Canadian- based in Ontario. The research and the information- are- of course- federal for the laws-and the attitudes and effects surrounding child sexual aggression- are -common to all humans- everywhere. (generalization- )
JUSTICE : Pédophilie : Guillouche écope de 20 ans de prison, son épouse de 12 ans, actualité Société : Le Point
Some more sub-humans caught- this time- France-
Wish someone of whom I know- would get -caught. He has destroyed many lives.
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Little has changed in domestic abuse- - across Canada - -
I ask again- what is critical mass ? How many thousands of children and/or mothers need to be murdered before politicians,governments and the legal system- act to stop the carnage ?????????????
I personally observe that the social services systems in every province and territory are STILL operating in the vacuum of ignorance. Ordering (for example) that abused victimized children (sexual aggression) visit their abusers-is just- insane. In this case- of which I am thinking- it was the gtrandparents.The mother -reported to the local social services- worked with a local organisation that tries to assist victims- all- to have her children re-victimized. I call this insanity. Then- the text that was posted yesterday- mother in Montreal- child sexually abused- she lost custody - to the abuser. In essence- our "systems" are saying- if you or your children are raped, sexually misused and abused -emotionally and psychologically wounded- so what- just live with /visit the criminal- and- voila ! -all will be well- we will put you on medication, charge you for therapy later- if you live-and when you are psychotic and/or attempt suicide- we'll hospitalize you. Sorry Canada. This is systemic INSANITY. We are destroying our "country" - systematically. This is what the shared parenting people are advocating- and the pas/pa people. Maybe some are ignorant- of what they are doing- but- all they have to do- is learn- so,I question ALL their motives. They shouldn't be working in the field if they have no idea what they are doing. Makes one think- they DO know what they are doing - - -
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Nothing new here. Happens more often than any decent ethical person can imagine (as if one wants to - -)
Some of the names here are- worth noting- as in : DANGER
Also- am unsure if the information is in this text- or another-
What is important to know is this : "He also had a collection of pictures of women and little girls,naked or in riding outfits on horses, that he had begun gathering since the age of sixteen."
One is led to wonder what prompted his-immigration to Canada - - - -
Another life snuffed out. Count in her surviving relatives and tiny child- it adds up to a physical murder and countless soul murers.
Every blasted day across North America.
Human rights abuses. Guess we haven't reached critical mass yet. How many thousands will it take ?
Just in Quebec province ,Canada,- since 1989- are we at 1000 ? I'll check and try to place the list here.
Same in Canada. A cultural/social scourge. A serious abuse of human rights.
Some fine articles here-
Saturday, December 12, 2009
I am very glad that I did not read the article to which Pamela Cross refers; and even more pleased that Madame Cross
was sufficiently cross about that particular bit of inane blather- to write about it .
So. here it is - in all its glory.
Every December 6, it seems, there has to be at least one uninformed - - -person- who has to slime the memorials- with, apparently no thought whatsover for the surviving family members and ALL the surviving family members of all the murdered women-.
At best, it indicates a lack of civility-and at worst - well- it doesn't need saying.
I find this post- interesting. It -contrasts with the illuminated images I just saw of the Olympic flame arriving in Ottawa- and the subsequent lighting of the Christmas lights-.Kind of- all those flames and lights are not enough to light up the dark corners of our world - -
Long live the Porcupine !
Read it and weep. Then decide what action YOU can take. Twenty five years later (since publication) -not a whole lot has changed - -
Can you blog ? Can you volunteer for a women's shelter ? Can you donate clothing etc. to a women's shelter ?
Just- LEARN about the fate of so many children- especially in situiations of domestic violence and divorce.
Teflon Dad: Single Dad of Two in St. Louis Gives Us More Insight Into The Misogynistic Mind « RightsForMothers.com
For- some comic relief- albeit- DARK- shows one - level (low) of what some mothers and their hurt children are up against- - - -
I don't usually bother with the - -dressup people- but- not a whole lot of people realize that these - -ummm - -ideas exist- and cause realtime abuse (continued abuse) of mothers and children- another aspect of domestic violence- hard to believe this goes on- unless you have been the target/victim of a - disgruntled male which whom you -reproduced - - - -
Most decent people (and I still believe most are --decent) find it hard to believe- because they would not behave like this -believe it- for the sake of the children - -
Also- most people tend to believe the legal system - equals justice. Uh uh- wrong-.
Also- most people believe that a parent would not harm a child- but - maybe this belief is slipping- given the preponderance of child pornography etc. -
We forgot we are still- just -mammals- and one gets renegade- unacceptable behaviored mammals in any group of animals- .It is just- not perpetuated- they don't survive - - I rather like wolves- they starve out their -twisted wloves- keep them from eating etc.- and- I have seen reports of lifelong bonding between "parents" .Other wolves help take care of the young- hope I'll be a wolf- in another lifetime -
Farley Mowat- thanks to your experiences - -
Just heard a report of sperm whales beaching - in Italy- maybe they were - ousted from the sociaty of sperm whales because they couldn't "behave" properly - -(wishful thinking)
Family Courts Betray “Best Interests of the Child” and Award Child Custody to Abusive Fathers « RightsForMothers.com
This blog post (reposted) should, in my opinion, be reposted often -and in as many places as possible. This is NOT an "American" issue- it is an international human rights issue.
Canada- happens frequently- even ONCE is too often-
Friday, December 11, 2009
This researcher has a REAL handle on what is "going on" re: domestic violence-she is working in Canada.
DV is - in my opinion- WOMAN ABUSE. It is the criminal attack on women- perpetrated by a "significant" other- and is part of a PATTERN of abusive behaviour , which not infrequently, ends in death (of the victim. The victims who fight back are often severely punished. What is THAT ????? -(just another part of the insanity)
Further- children in such a relatiuonship are often abused as well. For example, there is a high statistical link between DV and incest- child sexual aggression
PLEASE read and spread around as best you can.
Where are all the "victims/survivors ?? I believe we all could make a dfference if we- first- were in communication with each other- what about anonymous names on -say- Facebook ????????Canadian survivors- because - that's where we are ! And so- need to inform etc. the "systems" - where we are -
The attitudes and psychopathy underlying dv and related crimes are common to ALL groups/cultures/societies- but the laws and "systems" can - vary.
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Reports like this are vital- information to the public. The victims need to tell police themselves- and way before the abuser has a hint that they or their mother might-. Bt then- it is often too late. The abuser can manipulate-or terrify or both and more- and the victims are silenced.
Always tell police FIRST- never social sevices first- the children risk being silenced or removed-(from the home). Then if a non-abusing parent asks for divorce- custody can be lost-to the abuser. Insane- but- it happens- and way too often. Only once is too often.
Thank goodness the victims spoke- and to the police.
At least they are trying- they caught- the equivalent of a frozen snowflake on the tip of the proverbial iceberg.
I hope the investigations are ongoing. Everywhere and all the time. IF governments give a damn about children - - -
THIS should be repeated daily- Canada doesn't do well by children of other - "colours" either-
We seem especially weak in the area of sexual assaults on children-any child-
Something desperately wrong here - in the great white North
Women Don’t Want to Get Married and Have Children Because It’s A Lot of Work: Who is Surprised? « Unasked Advice
Levity- but not really. This writer didn't know who Glenn something was ? ! Oh my- he (Glenn) says he speaks for one of the greatest social and health disasters plaguing America today: namely- the misogynist male. (the virus exists in other places too- but not as web present.This blog writer ain't seen nuthin yet !)
The writer reminds me of me- when I seemingly insulted a male colleague-and sent a female colleague into gales of laughter (vive la difference !) -the poor fellow had asked me -(by way of a compliment I suppose- thank you ! )- why I looked and seemed so young for my age. To which I honestly replied (one of my weaknesses-honesty) - "I stopped being married-and didn't marry for long-"
Well- I know there is genetics and real food etc. involved- but- really- I have never been so miserable and put down ,as when I was married. I became a whipping girl- especially for no.2 (I know- but -I was still naive-it's my parents'; fault- they were very decent people)-and then lost EVERYTHING to the 2 - the abuser. I'm talking criminal, life threatening behavior- to all the children,animals and -woman- in range.
Even single life- running and hiding and paying for children- while knowing they were -severely wounded- etc.- still- better- hiding OUTSIDE the prison- than being chained inside-with no hope of even life itself. No 1 supported- still does I suppose- this criminal. Now- what would one call that ? Misogyny ? or just- atrocious hateful behaviour ? I digress. But- read some of Glennie's stuff- and it is just like listening to an X -or 2.
I wouldn't call it marriage - -many times- there are other words more apt-
That's why some women have their children- but with NO relationship. Something I really thought about- but- I was born too soon-
Well - broke harvard person who wrote this piece- thank you !
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Espece de - -jusque voir les photos qu'il avait sur son blogue - -la haine- pur et simple.
Ca donne des frissons - -
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
I'm with this writer-An abused child gets life- the abuser - - -?
And we wonder why some young ones "go astray" -
get depressed- can't function effectively etc.
Same report on the twisted guy- in English- less detail.
Well- I'll say it again-
Abuse lives everywhere and speaks all languages
Ahhhh- for the thinking rapist who wants to stop - -there are a few that could be added- for rapist dads - -
Monday, December 7, 2009
Well then- that EXPLAINS it !!! Tigers ARE monogamous- but only for a short period of time. Soooo- one could call it - serial monogamy- or- tigeronomy-
An excellent piece.
Ironically, this was published on the birthdate of a beloved child. Today, comes the welcome news that Sherry has been totally absolved of ALL blame in her baby's death so many years ago.
This is such a horrendous story (along with many others) Not only did Sherry experience the immeasurable agony of losing a child, but also, social services swooped in and took another son and adopted him out. Further, when she bore another child- social services were all over her like flies feasting on fresh manure.
All of this is analogous to a mother losing custody to an abuser. A baby,child, animal and woman abuser. The community- by and large turns against these mothers- believing the - "experts (read psychologists and social services personnel) - who have decided that she lied, or was "into" false allegations etc.
The end result is the same. Almost, or total , destruction of lives. Needlessly.
Terrible to say- but- at least Sherry did not have to deal with the constant abuses of her "ex" - as happens in custody cases- , nor pay hard earned money to her and her children's abuser- whilst never seeing them-
I can just imagime the hard looks- the set faces and clipped tones of the social workers who came to - -"inspect" her- all of them, I suppose, believing she was an abuser.
Thank goodness for James Lockyear and --- ,who fight with so much success, to right grievous wrongs.
This woman (and others) deserves a medal. An absolute medal. I hope when her "kidnapped" son reaches 18, that he will be allowed to -know the truth of his adoption and who his birth mother is.
If there is a God- and/or attendant angels, I expect them to support and protect James Lockyear for what I hope is a very very long career.
This is a human who walks in grace.
Isn't it always the same- poor baby- lost his job- in a custody suit- -answer ? KILL them all.
How can our society continually excuse murderers and child rapists- when there are laws against these actions ??? Aren't there ?
Guess I was mistaken. It is open season on our children- and has been for decades.Enlightened we are NOT.(as a society)
Just heard about a mother who was jailed for infanticide. Except- she was NOT guilty. She has finally been legally absolved. Wonder if our society will ever get to - absolving the mothers who sought divorce in order to protect themselves and their children- and -lost custody to an abuser ????
This mother's siutuation only came to light because the forensic pathologist who declared her guilty- was found to have been either totally and criminally incompetent- or he lied. Criminally. Just like some court "experts" who declare the abuser wonderful and the protective mother- guilty. There's more than one way to kill a child and a mother - - - -
Very interesting and extremely important site- re: child victims of parent abuse-and- "systems" abuse.
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Please sign this petition. I consider this complete criminal insanity to not harshly condemn rapists- especially child rapists. Some of our laws are a joke. Victims must -deal with the aftereffects- for a LIFETIME. The criminals get- a few months- and go go off and rape some more. Small wonder that when dear old dad rapes his children- no attention is paid-unless to blame the mother-
Criminal insanity to not address this - situation.
And- a few more- undoubtedly some of the photos are- from other parts of the world-
YES !!!! Another criminal caught. Saves untold numbers of victims and potential victims from continued abuse.
A reasoned piece- with information. Really excellent.
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Few seem to have cottoned on to this crucial fact- bravo for Phyllis Chesler for seeing this and writing about it. Good reasons to "check out" your future mate's home life- BEFORE you consider "hooking up" - if you get to make that choice- Not everyone has that luxury-but it is crucial- for future generations. Of course- one is not usually equipped to recognize future/potential abusers who abuse women and children. There are some that abuse with words- seen in some comments on articles- and some- websites and blogspots. One wonders- if a man spews hate in words on the Internet- WHAT must he be like in his real life treatment of women and children - - - -
Now- THIS is a comment- and an excellent one- re: Dec6.1989 and the context that led to it- the social context that still pervades many -levels of our society and leads to continued murders-
A good tribute to the 14 murdered Dec.6,1989. We need to think about all the unsung women and children who have been, and are, murdered-one by one. Do what you can to stem this wave of violence which continues and is so eminently destructive. One major point- is just to realize some ugly truths and not fall prey to the blatherings of a few who would deny this reality.
Friday, December 4, 2009
Canada - the home of the strong and free- AND the free to destroy ??????
(destroy children's lives - - -) Kudos to our Supreme Court and to Beyond Borders for their recognition of some loopholes that allowed some criminals - to- escape their "just desserts".
Last year at this time, I read a particularly hateful text in the National Post by a person with the unfortunate name of Pigg. There was no recognition of the pain that would be caused -again- to the remaining family members of these murdered young women-nor any comment about the obscenity of the act that the murder's twisted mind produced.This embarrassingly vicious text puhed me to start expressing my opinions- online.
This year, the above link led me to a tasteful and most acceptable tribute for these young women. I am grateful to see evidence of civil.thinking and empathic people writing such a tribute.I extend my sympathies . to the mother of the murderer also. Seems the father in this tragic scenario- was a batterer. So we see how violence begat more violence. How sad and un-neccessary.
Last year at this time, I began to express my opinions -via the Net. It began with my reading a truly hateful - text in the National Post - by a woman with the unfortunate name of : Pigg. That pushed me to write to sisyphe.org - I was completely disgusted that anyone would write such a shameful discourse -about those Dec.6 victims- with apparently no sense of decency or empathy for the surviving family members.Today- I found this text- which is a tribute to those young lives taken by pathological hate.
I hope I see more like this - and none of the embarrassingly distasteful remarks by any Pigg type person.
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Just came across this little gem- So THAT explains why in Canada ,if one reports father/daughter rape (and other abuses) ,custody is given to the perpetrator.
Glad it was explained to me. Social services and other implicated groups, should explain this to the tiny victims, too.
So- WHY do the police and the laws they struggle to uphold- say differently ? Price of evolution ? A few thousand victims (or more) - no matter ?
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
An excellent,short text which is most balanced in its reasoning. For that reason alone (it is SANE ! ) , it will probably incite the familiar rage experienced by the few - -males - -who seem to have hours and hours of time to rant invented statistics. Or -perhaps they just (these few) cannot read any texts that contain the word "woman" or "mother" without working themselves into a frenzy. Sad really. Many men I have met are distressed and often embarrassed by the mouthings of the few who seem ill equipped to function in a society that is struggling to evolve beyond the "women and children are chattel" belief.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Comme on peut constater assex facilement. les aggressions sexuels - c'est une probleme mondiale - - -
It is relatively easy to read world news and realize that sexual aggressions- are worldwide-
This is a worldwide social scourge.
This news-from France-
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Whew. This could have gone SO badly- . Wonder what pas and fathers' rights types will say about this- besides excusing the criminal acts-
Monday, November 30, 2009
This is a hoot- as well as being - "right on". Shared parenting is a l;egal tactic- much like pas .pa nonsense- it has to do with "winning" a case for your client (the more you win- the more you get clients) and absolutely NOTHING to do with humans or human rights. Judges are constrained by the laws- which (in my opinion should NEVER be used when settling custody)
Laws grew out of the perceived need to "protect" property- as in- get that castle and hold onto it- .Applying law in divorce- should only apply to the "castles " and NEVER to the human existence-especially when there are children involved- they are developing.
Good for him for speaking this.
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Very interesting news report.- on - the news !
Being inundated and almost overwhelmed- by memories/flashbacks of my ex (no.2)having brought my son to- what I now am certain was a pedophile. Pimping.
So- all of my children were soul murdered by their father and step-father. The criminals were supported by ex number 1. Now- what do you suppose that makes HIM ?
I learned that you can do NOTHING to help your children- if you report- you are blamed. Social services took what was left of my job/career and all material items- houses etc. -threw it all- along with me- into the person chopper upper and cranked out the chewed up remains.
The machine of our society- throw the kids in- throw everything else in- grind it all up- spew it out the other end- and then- wonder why these young ones commit what we call crimes.
The fathers' rights gangs - and they include some psychologists- some lawyers-some judges- etc.- turn the crank of this torture machine. Destruction of women and children and appropriation of their bodies,souls and any material items -like houses etc.- is their end game. Sub-humans and criminals engage in these actions- not real men.
It is the look in the eyes and on the faces of my children that haunts me- and will until the day I die. Those looks that hammer my soul even in sleep.The harder I tried to save them- the more I was - condemned.
My lawyer stopped being a lawyer after my case. That's how bad it was. And is. The police were good- they get to pull bodies of murdered mothers and children out of their last resting place.(so they recognize abuse and truth ) A crown prosecutor stopped them - - -
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Barbara Biggs and Australia - YES - some logic-some sense- and the government appears to be listening- excellent !
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
YES. Of course- call all you want- often it resembles - -the lone voice in the wilderness.
Reminds me of a cartoon I saw many years ago- a tree that had been cut down- in the forest. As it lies dying- there is a caption bubble- a small one- the tree's last words- "shit."
Kind of- like- if a tree falls in the forest - is there anyone around to hear it ?
If anyone calls for a cessation of reprehensible violence to women- are there any who are not deaf ???????????????
When your significant other has felled you to the floor- if no-one sees it- is it- the silent tree in the forest ?
and- if he cut your throat- well- you can't even say - - -shit.
This superb organisation needs our help. International letters are great, too. They would show how inportant is the information and support delivered by the CRCVC.
Every single human person is directly or indirectly affected by crimes- whether you have considered this or not. Just a certain number of break ins- increases (for example) the insurance costs for an entire region of people who live in those areas.
For crimes against other humans- the costs to society are numerous and almost immeasurable- except- many have researched these costs- for example, in domestic violence. Some years ago there was an excellent report done- by (if I remember correctly) the University of Western Ontario, on the economic costs of domestic violence.
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Interesting. Just typing into a search engine-the words mothers,children's rights etc.- this page came up-. As there were references to Canadians on this page, I decided in the interests of information, to post it here. Even looking for PAS or PA or- using several other words for searches, one can find this, and other similar information blogs.
Monday, November 23, 2009
Monday ! Before the House for a vote !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A step forward. It is not soon enough -and won't BE enough-but- hip hip hooray !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The BEST !
I just heard that Canada is preparing to pass legislation to oblige IP service providers to report the addressses etc. of any and all child porn they "notice" among their clients. It's about time.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Tim Giago writes about the reprehensible atrocities perpetrated on children in residential schools- across North America. It is all part and parcel of the many- pronged pedophile/child rapists predatory attacks on the most vulnerable. The pattern of abuse-escalating abuse IS the pattern of abuse found in many households. I'll say it again- seems children are "The Last Frontier" . Actually -this predatory behaviour has been with us for ever so long- we are now speaking up a bit more about it. Thank goodness.
Except- not enough people are LISTENING or even hearing -
My dog -eared copy of Florence Rush's The Best Kept Secret: Sexual Abuse of Children, was published in 1980- but it could be re-published every year- the facts have not changed. Even infamous pro-pedophile Warren Farrel is in there- and he is still being hailed as someone to "follow" by certain men's groups, fathers' rights groups and pas/pa salesmen.
Florence made a public debut in 1971, in New York- where she spoke at a two day conference on rape.
A quote from the introduction written by Susan Brownmiller reads as follows: "She is categorically. the first theorist on the subject who does not blame the child in any way,shape or form. She is also the first thinker to see child sexual abuse not as an isolated incident but as a pervasive pattern with antecedents of social acceptance that reach far back into history."
Well- yes- look at "persons of authority" -abusing and raping/sodomozing children and babies. And then - and then- look at the statistics showing a strong and significant correlation between wife beaters and wife beaters molesting./sexually aggressing their own children.
Anyone reading this -please look up your own statistics. I will not engage in meangless statistic flinging - like some "fathers' rights ---people do. If you don't like the truth as researched- then don't read -this ! Stick to Penthouse and Farrel and the like.
I'm on the other end of ethics. The higher end.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Judge’s Association Warns: “Parental Alienation Syndrome” and Claims of “Parental Alienation” Have No Grounding in Reality « RightsForMothers.com
Another state begins to come to their senses. Listen up Canada. Especially the Toronto, Ontario based types who were/are pushing this - vile nonsense - -
This is only ONE mother who is still standing and walking and talking. I know a Canadian mother- and know of many- who lost their children to what one writer has called- soul murder. In soul murder- the children "live"-and suffer. So do the mothers.
Soul murder by custody to child abusers. Like - pimping our children.
The other story- bits and pieces of which were seen on Oprah- so- worldwide exposure- , is the story saying a mother pimped out her daughter - ostensibly to pay a debt. The child was murdered. Died , it would seem, as a result of her rape. The child was five years old.
My reaction is basically- so- what's new ? I know the story of a mother who duly reported (in terror ) the sodomy of her babies, the sexual abuse/aggression of her children and her own beatings at the hands of the same perp- reported to police, hospitals,doctor- as did neighbours who witnessed other -unacceptable behaviors. The police and doctors (for example) must by law, report to the social services. All these behaviors- are against the laws of many countries.(child rape, pimping a child/baby, child pornography, bestiality and trying to kill another person.)
In a sense- this mother was whistle blowing -on the perp. What happened ? Well- the police told her that they had to report to social services-and then added- "but they never do anything". And- nothing happened.
When this mother sought divorce to save herself and her children-SHE was blamed for- lord knows- anything and everything. Now doesn't that smack of- kill the messenger/destroy the whistleblower ?????
Further, she lost custody of her small children- to the child rapist. Isn't that -pimping ? One could say, that in that "case" - the social services are pimps. They deliver tiny victims to the child rapists.
This "case" took place in Quebec- but there are similar stories right across Canada. The one that comes to mind- is that of Christian Lee in British Columbia. He died. Similar scenario led to his death.
What I learned from this case and terrifyingly, many many others, is that : if you end up with a child rapist -you will be blamed and no-one will do anything. If you withhold visits (i.e. sending your child to their rapist) ,you are blamed and can lose custody. If you even REPORT your child's rape.sodomy- you will lose custody. If you run to save your children, you will lose custody. So- if your child/children are raped/sexually aggressed by their father- the message is clear- there isn't a damn thing you can do.
Didn't Kafka write about this kind of - impossible situation ??? -------
Friday, November 20, 2009
Canadians ! Warning
Make no mistake about it- the names mentioned in the -text -send all their information- to Canada- to people like -Jeremy Swanson (Ottawa-Men's Center)
If you care about children- and so often hidden abuse that never surfaces in contentious divorces-with horrendous results for our children; then- recognize some names- like -Holstein-read the Sacks "blog
" , learn about a Mr. Farrell- his ideas- THEIR ideas- and feel shock and horror at the discourse of some of these- "fathers' " rights people.
Their information (put out by a few- is spread -to a few- thanks to the information flow of the Internet.Like Richard Dawkin's idea of memes- except, these ideas are cultural viruses-guaranteed to sicken our society- by the planned destruction of our children. Rermember- ONLY approximately a 2% of our children- but , in my opinion- ONE child destroyed is already one too many.
Do these people understand the destruction they cause ? Probably not. Do they care -for example- in a "mild" case- where parents have equal custody-that the children have to pick up and -sort of move- between homes ? Probably not. I have seen years and years of children shunted between homes- whether they want it or not. I met up with a young lady, whom I taught when she was in Secondary One. (11-12 years old) There was a constant sort of -frozen robot like on guard behavior- -what if she forgot her books at one home ? -etc. The logistics of any changed dance classes or other extra curricular activities- was- phenomenal. On the first parent's night- in came her young mother- a trained psychologist- very nervous- she finally said- I have to rush because I must not let her father see me here. Same story over and over- parent after parent. In came the father- with wife no.2 in tow- supercilious-arrogant- asking if mother had been there- as though it were a crime. The mother only asked about the daughter - -.
I never forgot that one child- remembered more than the others- for an unknown reason. Years later I am at a regional conference for community groups- part of my continued work in the area- particularly with/for victims of sexual aggression. Up to me come two young women- both, I remember- and the one- is that frozen faced child from Secondary One! She is in college -locally-.The presentation she came to see- where I was-and where she came- was on sexual aggression. I carefully mention that I clearly remembered her and wondered where she was and how she was doing. I ask if she has her own apartment. NO- madame- I am with my MOTHER !! With such a joyous expression on her face-and then- she proceeds to tell me about dad- and the step mother - - -Her face is no longer frozen. It is open and joyous.
If a divorce separation agreement goes to court- over and over- is contested- usually by the father- there is ALWAYS more than meets the eye behind it. One cannot impose sanity and empathy and caring for other human beings- where it was not present to begin with.
There is a reason, as old as time, that mothers usually get custody- and it has to do with genetics and evolution and the way mammals reproduce and who carries and bears the young of the species. And- who nurtures the young.
Yanking people continually through courts destroys everything that can be sane , calm and beneficial for developing children. .
Could it be- greed ? (won't pay the b**** -no comprehension of the needs of developing children ? (ranting at a child over a missing book- etc) or- some twisted sense of ownership- (child is not a person- but a possession-mothers are not people either- they are "owned" ) -a mixture of many factors probably.
What ever the "causes" ,there is nothing admirable or helpful, in anti-social behavior.
I keep thinking about that 18 year old in the Toronto area- who put a stop to the utter destructive NONSENSE that was going on. A group of people in Toronto- who align with Farrell, Holstein and Gardner, - were set to have a younger brother sent to another country for some kind of highly dubious "therapy"
Why did a delightful child have to pass at least 7 years of her young developing life- being shunted back and forth between -homes- only to FLEE to her mother the SECOND she turned 18 ? Multiply her story thousands of times across Canada-
In my opinion, people who push these -"ideas" are predators- looking for prey. Further, they seek out and/or attract the -people at the bottom of the humanity continuum.
A must read. This intelligent ,educated human who speaks and writes with comprehension and empathy; should be more widely heard and read. (as if there were time !)
My opinions on children's rights, are more narrow in scope- sort of. My concern is in the area of separation and divorce. Specifically -those divorces which are called "high conflict".
What I have learned:
The majority of divorces are settled- often via mediation if needed- . The "rights" of all parties seem - protected. It is the divorces where one party was in fact, abusing the wife and children. The divorces where there is a constant unremitting series of court appearances to- obtain joint or shared custody-or, in cases of -abusers further on the continuum of abuse - the quest for total custody.These are the cases where the rights of the children are NEVER considered.The constant turmoil is, in itself,an abuse.
Who are abusers ? They can be anyone- from any walk of life. One constant is: they are predominately male.
Has there been an -upsurge of these cases ? (go back 25 years) Yes. It coincides rather neatly with the changes governments made- that the non-custodial parent absolutely must pay child support.(governments made these changes in an attempt to reduce welfare rolls- the number of mothers with children-on welfare. It was not altuism.
There is also a coincidental (? )increase in the noise made by some fathers' rights groups as well as drum beating by proponents of that pro-pediphile idea- pas- pa ,or just alienation- as some of the snake oil salesmen like to call it now. (too many know the provenance of these ideas)
And- of course- if one can "prove" alienation- there are some waiting anxiously in the wings- to provide "therapy" to- un alienate the child ! Yeah. Right.
I am very clear on how I see all of THAT. And my opinion is not acceptable in writing -on a blog. It has to do with greed. And no ethics.
Did others notice that some people now are screeching FOR "automatic" shared parenting ? At the same time the Australian government is revising its practice of "equal" parenting- of the last six ? years. Too many deaths of mothers and children. The final straw was little Darcy Freeman. Dear old dad stopped his vehicle on a bridge-plucked the tiny girl out and threw her off the bridge. In front of two young sons. Another funeral.
Do these children enjoy their basic human rights ? Did they ? There are dozens of similar cases,ending in death. In every case, examined AFTER the fact- (deaths) there was found a series of clear warnings- of abusive and dangerous behavior. A "psychologist" or social worker easily or purposefully "misses" these signals- and- the deaths continue.
Is this what the silent majority wishes for Canada ?????
Well written article. I have not found, personally, that Canada REALLY cares about children. I HAVE found that : some lawyers care about -making money and winning cases. If children are destroyed in the process- too bad. Some psychologists support child abusers -child sexual abusers- why- I haven't figured that one out yet- (at least- not for public consumption) A LOT of social workers-(it is systemic) care about keeping their jobs. So- if it means always believing the child sexual abuser and condemning a reporter (often a mother) -then the job stays -and the children are condemned to hell. Some judges and others- choose to believe the child abusers- Why? Unsure. Possibly because the aforementioned social workers and psychologists have convinced these -some- judges that- what-all mothers lie ? Most children lie ?
To be so incredibly misinformed and badly trained when one holds the lives of children in one's hands- is reprehensible.
No surprise here- just continued disgust at the lack of action- among certain groups. The inaction hinders those who seek to help these tiny victims-
What if someone was willing to spend hours-days- weeks- looking at images -volunteer- in order to hopefully identify some tiny victims ??? Would that offer be accepted ???? And- who would do the accepting ?????
Not incidentally- father.daughter incest is the most prevalent form of child sexual aggression - and the criminal acts the least- exposed.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
I just found this EXCELLENT commentary on - why some mothers and their children are destroyed. This is the attitude set-mind set of those who align themselves with fathers' rights groups. Why do some judges, lawyers,psychologists and a whack of social workers ascribe to pas pa ideas ???? There are probably several reasons- but the end result is the same- destruction of children's lives.One would think that these- supporters of vile ideas would research first ,before they expose their- predilictions ?
Whoever wrote this is on the same wave length as the post I wrote recently..
One of the reasons I only remember bits and pieces of what the x's lawyer was saying in court- and the x's psychologist; is that I was spending time in court thinking of how to get in and out etc. without being attacked or killed. Also, I knew the x's psychologist was a leader in a fathers' rights group in Montreal and had also been associated with a nambla type group in the area. I remember thinking as the psycho logist was spouting his "credentials" to a judge -the one that he said he had "done" 200 assessments- I was calculating how many children had been destroyed-
And today(Nov.20) is -National Children's Day. Yeah . Right. Canada signed the Convention on Children's Rights in 1989 - who knew ! As useful as a protection order against a murderous,violent child rapist. All words, no action-Canada - -
Thankfully, I KNOW there are a majority of people who do not think that daddies having sex with children is okay. In fact , there are laws against it. So- WHY do some people persist in accepting and trying to PUSH the idea that it is okay ?????? I will not repeat my answer to that question, here.
This is an excellent- site. It is based in the U.S.- but- the attitudes that underlie the continued victimization of women and children, are common to all Western supposedly "civilized" societies- (I use the term civilized-loosely) . I know for a fact that this is a commonality in Canada, Australia and the U.K. Common to all these countries (and more) are attitudes that view women and children as- something less than human, and often, something lesser even than animals. Rape a child- rape an animal- rape a woman- beat them all- It is all the same amorphous mass-to a predator. A criminal. As far as I am concerned, the -some psychologists, therapists,lawyers,judges, fathers' rights -types- are ALL guilty by-at the very least- association. If we call a male who sexually and otherwise aggresses a child, animal or woman, a criminal- then what does one call a person who aids, abets and supports such a predator ???????? That's aiding and abetting a criminal act(s). Others sin by keeping the silence. I do not refer to the victims. I refer to the people who KNOW and say nothing- like a raft of social workers of whom I know. In fact- the entire social system structure needs- an overhaul ? Shutting down ? What ? I know of a "case" where sexual abuse by grandparents was substantiated- and the SOCIAL SERVICES who were overseeing the case- recommended visitation - so the small victims have to go and visit their criminal grandparents. I call this- criminally insane behavior. What do YOU call it ?
Bravo to these news/media people for picking up on this blog- Excellent. These news personnel are helping to combat a horrendous social scourge., As, of course, are so many bloggers out there.
We have our missing women and mothers in Canada, also. I didn't vanish- stayed alive- against huge odds. Looking back, it was - primarily assumptions, attitudes and beliefs-prejudices that nearly succeeded in destroying me completely. As in dead- vanished- etc. As it is- "they" mostly succeeded in condemning my children to a tortuous existence. Even if physically alive- if they are - -. Who knows ? I don't.
In Canada- the more/most vulnerable are- picked by the predators. So we hear more about First Nations women and girls being slaughtered- and prostitutes- many/most of whom came from childhoods of abuse- some who are kidnapped and put into sexual slavery.
But- your average middle class and upper class woman/girl is also NOT immune to a predator. It is just- more hidden. Except when the media picks up a high profile case, like the doctor in Quebec province who murdered his children -a way to emotionally kill a mother. Without her children, she too, "vanishes. Even if she still- walks and talks - -
Murder the children- is just another way to get rid of a mother.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Ohhhhh - you thought it was FINISHED ???? It never is , with an abuser.
More of the continuing saga of Lorraine Tipton, the - -um - -the - "father, Craig Hensberger and the child , M. This is what abusers DO- they abuse. No surprise there. Even tv land knows THAT. Ever see : Criminal Minds, CSI, NCIS, SVU,Flashpoint- , for example ?
If all sorts of tv watchers, a whole lot of mothers, a great many men etc. etc. -know this- that abusers just- abuse- WHY cannot a few psychologists,a few lawyers, a few- lawmakers etc. - NOT ? How out of it can one be ????? Or- is it possible ? Abusers also ? Or- secretly wanting to be ? Living vicariously ? What ?
How can some presumably mildly intelligent people- support and promote abuse ???
Does the general public KNOW that pedophiles and fathers' rights sites , EXPLAIN how to "get" your- child, ex-wife- ex-girlfriend etc. ? Used to be that it was written in certain types of magazines- now it is written on the Internet - -
Recently, in the U.S., as a - "for example" of the handiwork of supporters of shared parenting, equal parenting, pas/pa ideas- -the kind of result that promoters of these -ideas gain- a child in the U.S categorically refused to visit this- father. With great reason. Court-perhaps not -knowing ? about abuses -ordered visits. which the "father" had frequently not taken. So, when the mother was unable to continue forcing her child to "visit", the judge had the mother jailed. The child is old enough to realize that if she did not go with her father- that her mother would be jailed. This, to me, smacks of child abuse-threat, emotional abuse etc. So- supporters of these- unethical ideas -If this is the result you and the abusers you support and desire- then you have succeeded in creating continued suffering-of children-. If this scenario is what a majority of people want -in their country- like pas and pa etc.- then- it is the silent and totally unethical majority. Does this describe Canadians and Americans ????? No ethics ? No morals ? No- - - -common sense ? I have been told, recently, that other countries have court ruled AGAINST the use of presumption of shared parenting-which "breeds" the use of abusive ideas like pas/pa. I was told that- Chile has ruled against the use of pas/pa. I know the American Psychological Association does NOT accept these ideas. I know that the country of Australia is re-thinking their use of shared/equal parenting. It was a disaster. Too many deaths- of mothers and children- culminating (in the public eye) with a father throwing his daughter off a bridge. (but not the sons - - -)
A few Canadians are pushing for pas/pa type ideas to be used - and accepted -in the courts. Guess what- many, many children and their protective parents (most often a mother) have already been destroyed by these ideas. Since the early 1980's. Almost 30 years of -destruction of children. Isn't that enough ?
It is impossible for me to comprehend how a person could even consider supporting ideas that sprung from the twisted mind of a pro-pedophile in the U.S. Yet- we have SOME lawyers, SOME - "psychologists" SOME "therapists" a whack of social workers (and the systems they are in -) promulgating these ideas. Guilt by association. Any
"fathers'; rights" people who push these ideas- are also guilty by association. Pro pedophile. What is mind boggling- that a few people in a position to - make noise- like- reporters- senators- are FOR these pro-pedophile ideas. Now- what does that make THEM ????????????\
The- some lawyers ? I don't know if they believe these -pedo opinions- or if they have a vested interest in using them- either way- it's a no-no. Human lives are involved-not papers or companies or- any "possession" as such- human lives. Developing human lives. Talk to some policemen- the ones who get to pull slaughtered bodies out of fields -etc.-or- the people who pulled Darcy Freeman's small body from the river where her father flung her - -
Inventor of Abusive Fake Anonymummies Site, Mark K. Godbey, Due to Court Again in 10 Year Legal Abuse of Ex-Wife « Very Bad Daddies
For all the decent and semi-decent humans out there ,who have NO idea what an abuser can "do" to continue abusing after separation or divorce : glance at THIS one example of abusive behavior that is repeated at least weekly, across North America. Lots of others- end with murder of the mother and/or the children. The laws , courts and social service systems have NOT "caught up" with the ugly reality of what happens in so many divorces and separations. Even ONE , is too many-. These - types of "fathers" are the ones who - -flock to pas/pa/shared/equal parenting types. The lawyers and others who promote pas/pa/equal parenting etc. nonsense, are at the very least, guilty by association. They promote these ridiculous theories and therapies and "tools" in the courts, to aid abusers. The 98% or so people who divorce WITHOUT all this continued abuse, negotiate reasonable settlements without abusing their children and (the usual) the mothers of these children.
There are abusers in every nation. In Canada, there are some abusers who abuse like this- and the advocates of abuse, who actively promote pas/pa/equal parenting etc.
I am re-posting this -truth- (Godbey's cases) to show anyone who reads this blog- the kind of behavior that abusers and their supporters advocate. A criminal is a criminal;- unless he is married- it would seem ! Thank goodness it is only a few who are criminally inclined- and I include people who push therapy nonsense. The child abuse called pas/pa- does everyone KNOW that these scurrilous ideas were developed by a pro-pedophile ? Birds of a feather F LOCK together.
Friday, November 13, 2009
As usual- this Broadsides appeals to all my better sides- like-intelligence and an over-developed sense of humour. (I'm leaving out modesty)
Coming in the wake of the Jailing of a Mother- (because she couldn't force her daughter to visit the father) -I find the article most timely !
Nowhere can I find reports of a father being jailed because he couldn't force a child to visit the mother. Hmmm. Apart from the fact that mostly mothers have custody after divorce- still- with all the often unintelligible mumblings of fathers rights types- one seems to find certain types of fathers on top of bridges,buildings or cranes- but rarely in jail. Now- why do you suppose that is ?????
God is a man -male- supposedly. Does that make all males- like- little breakoff bits of god ?? or- wannabe gods ?? hmm.
In any case- love Broadsides. All religions seem, to me, to be -often examples of groupthink- which is dangerous. Maybe the courts suffer from groupthink, too. Is groupthink a corollary of - -nothink? Methinks maybe.
Not that jailing mothers/women is anything new. Far from it. A bit better than Salem etc. - .Therefore, I suppose one could say- we have evolved ????????
Thursday, November 12, 2009
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A mother in the United States has been sent to jail until her daughter accepts to go and visit her father. The mother was unable ,and deemed it unethical to FORCE her daughter (11) to visit a man who has substantiated allegations of abuse against him.
These are human rights abuses- the kind which happen continuously across North America. These crimes are largely unknown to the public, and hence, to decent, ethical citizens. What is happening to Lorraine Tipton, the mother, and to her daughter ,Michaela , can happen to ANY mother anywhere in North America. (and other continents) It has already happened in numerous unpublished and unknown cases. The Facebook page listed above is a beginning- only- of what one can do- to help these people- and in so doing, help all of us .(humans) Those who support pas/pa type ideas-and /or equal/shared parenting, are opening the door wide open to this kind of continued human rights abuses. Remember Dr.Elizabeth Morgan ? You should. Now remember a little girl whose mother is in jail- right now, in Oconto County, Wisconsin,United States of America.
Friday, November 6, 2009
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Thursday, November 5, 2009
Excellent and balanced article. The comments range rather- drastically !
"Men's Rights" Groups Have Become Frighteningly Effective
At the end of October, National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, members of the menâs movement group RADAR (Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting ) gathered on the steps of Congress to lobby against what they say are the suppressed truths about domestic violence: that false allegations are rampant, that a feminist-run court system fraudulently separates innocent fathers from children, that battered womenâs shelters are running a racket that funnels federal dollars to feminists, that domestic-violence laws give cover to cage
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Monday, October 26, 2009
Too much horrendous destruction. Too many mothers losing custody of cherished children, to an abuser-often a child rapist./ sexual abuser as well as being a wife beater.
However- I now think I have discovered the reason for my inability to understand these fathers' rights texts. It is because they are writing in newspeak- a la George Orwell. In newspeak, mothers and children would be UNPERSONS, - their crimes having been to report their abuses ! Except- it is a dialect version of newspeak- which I presume should called FRIVELSPEAK. That incorporates both aspects of the texts I have read ; namely fathers rights (as seen by some) and - drivel.
I hope this explanation will help others decode the articles and letters which bore (two senses of the word) their way around the Internet !
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Saturday, October 24, 2009
New 2009 StatCan Family Violence Report: Women and Children are the Big Losers at the Hands of Husbands and Fathers « RightsForMothers.com
One website ,based in Australia, seeks to inform about this scourge:
There is another fledgling site, based in the U.S., that I will share in another post.
It is of note, that Austrailia's government is the first that I know of, that is looking to scrap shared parenting concepts as a general guide to judges, in family law. Kudos.
Friday, October 23, 2009
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Published: 10/21/2009 12:00:00 AM
A 19-year-old Victoria woman who suffered horrific sex assaults at the hands of her father has been awarded nearly $600,000 in damages
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
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An article arrives . It is a report about an Australian man who has been condemned to prison for nine years or more, for strangling his wife's cat. (among other brutalities) There was a child from this union.I am not even through the entire article -and - back I go . Blasted back into hell again.
My eldest daughter, not yet a year and a half old and non-verbal- but very expressive, had dragged me into a pet store in the shopping mall. She had heard a kitten yolping.Home came a little black morsel of fur. Who grew up and had a litter of kittens.
One was kept - and grew to be a superb long haired mostly black cat lady with white boots and whiskers/antennae. Sweet , calm and affectionate.
This adored pet died young.Result of bestiality by x. The x who got full custody of two already deeply wounded tiny girls.
Small wonder I have little respect for "the law" , bureaucracies etc. specially social services. It was a social worker who did this to us. Of course there were other players. Notably the x's psychologist- a known fathers' rights supporter- x's lawyer- played a major part in the total destruction of- four people and their spiritual and material heritage. I had no money. So it had to be pure evil. Perhaps with a good deal of ignorance mixed into the poison.
The judge believed the psychiatrist, the doctor, the witnesses, me, etc. He did the only thing he could- and ordered another "expertise". (social workers have the power of gods)
Same psychologist same social worker- second time around- different judge- one known to be- "not nice".(words of my lawyer- being diplomatic)
I don't write many original texts on this blog. So many words float around about child custody etc.- that I am sure they are at least partially responsible for global warming. The words don't change what happened. The words don't change what keeps on happening- all over the Western world.
The words don't fix my agonies nor those of my adult children.(they lived through having their mother "disappear" and living with a brute- physically survived-)
That was not the only animal he killed that way. Another- he made his tiny children watch.