Triggers/rant

Some are known and can be foreseen . Many cannot. One must be on constant alert to check and doublecheck all reactions so as to ensure there is not an over-reaction to some word or sentence or facial expression.It is exhausting.


This one hit out of the blue. The Supreme Court decision on "low risk" HIV infection and the need to inform a partner did it. More correctly, the discussions after in a newspaper, did me in. I cannot even remember the content of the article or comments, except for the one word that set off the avalanche of desperate , intensely sad reactions. Clamydia. A sexually transmitted disease.



That was what my x beating battering child abusing animal abusing thieving piece of criminality gave me. And gave to some children he had - contact with. All of that suffering un necessary. Lives mangled and destroyed thanks to a crown prosecutor who refused to lay charges when the police asked. Thanks to the youth destruction group who helped the child rapist.wife beater/attempted murder thing/bestiality practitioner/thief criminal.


He had a vasectomy before I managed to sue for divorce (since there was no help anywhere). Said to me it was because he loved me. He must have thought I was as stupid as all the insane social workers  and psychologists. It was so he would not impregnate his victims. At least one victim took, without needing to- birth control pills for years and years. That alone is not good for the health.


And still some (men) ask me - did I never get a "chum" after divorce. Idiots. What do they think DV is ? The x beat up men too. Democratic abuser. Abuse anything our society lets him hurt. That's a LOT.That's anything and anyone. The Supreme Court is completely UNABLE to judge in matters of human health and welfare. Any law system is. Laws were developed to protect property. As such, they cannot and should not wander blindly into the realms of health and welfare of living entities.

Damn them all to hell.

Update on case in Hawaii… « Family Court/PAS candidate

Update on case in Hawaii… « Family Court in America



Oh- this sounds SO typical- of cases all over the Western world. She is prime to be accused of alienation- if she has not already been. And some people wonder why so many are against these- ideas that are so destructive.

Crossing Roads Safely: Custody battles and abusers rights -

HOW DO WE KNOW CUSTODY COURTS ARE SENDING CHILDREN TO LIVE WITH ABUSERS? NOMAS

Have children ? Any kind of a relationship ? Want children ? Want to be in a relationship ? THEN- read this and re-read this and spread it around. Tragically true. We won't cross roads without looking both ways- please don't cross this road (into a relationship) - without looking both ways. It could very well save your life and that of  your children.


Just look at the recent exposure of a convicted child sexual abuser being PARDONED and then , the event being kept hidden. Well, in divorce court, the non-abusing parent will be blamed for " disrupting the family" or worse- and already mangled children will be sent to live with their rapist.

Non- abusing parents (and others) are required by law to report abuse. When they do, social services systems and law sytems tend to blame the reporting non-abusive parent, and send the children to be further wounded. Protective parents are - not believed and the laws are too- vaguely worded.

The Christian Lee inquest report out of British Columbia highlights the systemic failures. This is a common scenario acted out across Canada. Weep for our children - and then- DO something about it. Anything.

A Canadian pull string talking doll and Haitian Children

Well now, at a recent trip to a Walmart store, I paused in front of a sale of dolls- among them-those dolls that have a string through the back of the neck. When the string is pulled, pre-recorded messages come out. Some, one can even pre-record your own message,

When I came home and put on the news, the announcer was passing on the information that scores of Haitian children are disappearing. However, when checking the Internet, a certain (female) columnist in the West of Canada (B.K.) had yet another of those tiringly inane columns- not about children or Haiti- but- mouthing the same old paranoic drivel about all the feminists out there being nasty to all the nice men. I always marvel at how a newspaper could put this stuff out- and then- it hit me !

They are expanding into the talking doll market, in conjunction with the robotics industry- and test running their first clumsy attempt at an artificial intelligence robot !

Pre record some nonsense or other- pull the string- and see if the robot can type it out ! NOW , finally , I comprehend. I am not rushing out to buy stocks in their company, though. There are so many rival pull string dolls out there- some male- some female-

The Femicide List | CITIZENShift

The Femicide List CITIZENShift

An interesting piece from the West of Canada-

Lacey Gaines

Lacey Gaines

Another life snuffed out. Count in her surviving relatives and tiny child- it adds up to a physical murder and countless soul murers.
Every blasted day across North America.

Human rights abuses. Guess we haven't reached critical mass yet. How many thousands will it take ?

Just in Quebec province ,Canada,- since 1989- are we at 1000 ? I'll check and try to place the list here.

Pamela Cross

Pamela Cross


I am very glad that I did not read the article to which Pamela Cross refers; and even more pleased that Madame Cross
was sufficiently cross about that particular bit of inane blather- to write about it .

So. here it is - in all its glory.

Every December 6, it seems, there has to be at least one uninformed - - -person- who has to slime the memorials- with, apparently no thought whatsover for the surviving family members and ALL the surviving family members of all the murdered women-.

At best, it indicates a lack of civility-and at worst - well- it doesn't need saying.

The Summary Report

The Summary Report

Read it and weep. Then decide what action YOU can take. Twenty five years later (since publication) -not a whole lot has changed - -

Can you blog ? Can you volunteer for a women's shelter ? Can you donate clothing etc. to a women's shelter ?
Just- LEARN about the fate of so many children- especially in situiations of domestic violence and divorce.

Teflon Dad: Single Dad of Two in St. Louis Gives Us More Insight Into The Misogynistic Mind « RightsForMothers.com

Teflon Dad: Single Dad of Two in St. Louis Gives Us More Insight Into The Misogynistic Mind « RightsForMothers.com

For- some comic relief- albeit- DARK- shows one - level (low) of what some mothers and their hurt children are up against- - - -

I don't usually bother with the  - -dressup people- but- not a whole lot of people realize that these  - -ummm - -ideas exist- and cause realtime abuse (continued abuse) of  mothers and children- another aspect of domestic violence- hard to believe this goes on- unless you have been the target/victim of a - disgruntled male which whom you -reproduced - - - -

Most decent people (and I still believe most are --decent) find it hard to believe- because they would not behave like this -believe it- for the sake of the children - -
Also- most people tend to believe the legal system - equals justice. Uh uh- wrong-.
Also- most people believe that a parent would not harm a child- but - maybe this belief is slipping- given the preponderance of child pornography etc. -

We forgot we are still- just -mammals- and one gets renegade- unacceptable behaviored mammals in any group of  animals- .It is just- not perpetuated- they don't survive - - I rather like wolves- they starve out their -twisted wloves- keep them from eating etc.- and- I have seen reports of lifelong bonding between "parents" .Other wolves help take care of the young- hope I'll be a wolf- in another lifetime -

Farley Mowat- thanks to your experiences - -

Just heard a report of sperm whales beaching - in Italy- maybe they were - ousted from the sociaty of sperm whales because they couldn't "behave" properly - -(wishful thinking)

Family Courts Betray “Best Interests of the Child” and Award Child Custody to Abusive Fathers « RightsForMothers.com

Family Courts Betray “Best Interests of the Child” and Award Child Custody to Abusive Fathers « RightsForMothers.com


This blog post (reposted) should, in my opinion, be reposted often -and in as many places as possible. This is NOT an "American" issue- it is an international human rights issue.

Canada- happens frequently- even ONCE is too often-

Metro - UOIT assistant professor fights for abused women

Metro - UOIT assistant professor fights for abused women

SUPER IMPORTANT

This researcher has a REAL handle on what is "going on" re: domestic violence-she is working in Canada.

DV is - in my opinion- WOMAN ABUSE. It is the criminal attack on women- perpetrated by a "significant" other- and is part of a PATTERN of abusive behaviour , which not infrequently, ends in death (of the victim. The victims who fight back are often severely punished. What is THAT ????? -(just another part of the insanity)

Further- children in such a relatiuonship are often abused as well. For example, there is a high statistical link between DV and incest- child sexual aggression

PLEASE read and spread around as best you can.

Where are all the "victims/survivors ?? I believe we all could make a dfference if we- first- were in communication with each other- what about anonymous names on -say- Facebook ????????Canadian survivors- because - that's where we are ! And so- need to inform etc. the "systems" - where we are -

The attitudes and psychopathy underlying dv and related crimes are common to ALL groups/cultures/societies- but the laws and "systems" can - vary.